The way a perpetrator builds a trusting relationship with a child is considered grooming. This makes it very difficult for the child to escape the abuse or tell anyone about the abuse.The child often feels loyal to their abuser and will blame themselves for the abuse. Power and authority are often used as a form of manipulation.
Signs of grooming:
Giving the child gifts/money
Finding ways to spend one on one time with the child
Showing favoritism to the child over other children